5 thoughts on “I was pregnant, my mother -in -law asked to send the cat away. Do I really want to send away my favorite cat?”
Joy
I think it can be dependent on the actual situation.
The is actually normal to raise pets when pregnant abroad, but it seems rare in China. On the one hand, it is because of conceptual problems, and on the other hand, it is because pets have not been popular. Many elderly people have a great prejudice to pets. They will feel that pets have bacteria and may hurt people. They are not very good for pregnant women. In fact, many people’s pets will regularly check in pet hospitals. Whenever bathing, some are also trained and will not hurt pregnant women. I remember my sister was still raising her dog when she was pregnant. Sometimes she would sleep with the dog, and there was no problem with the child. So you can look at it according to the actual situation. It mainly depends on two aspects. The first aspect is the attitude of the family. If your family really resists your pets when you are pregnant, if you insist, you will be uneasy at home, then I suggest you still suggest It is better to calm the pets elsewhere first, otherwise it will be bad for you for a long time. The second aspect is to look at the sanitary status of pets. If your cat has also vaccinated, I often take a bath, and it is very clean. I think you can still persist when your family is not very opposed. A little less cat, let it be in other relatively isolated space activities, for example, try to keep it in the cage as much as possible. In short, I think the big principle is not to affect the harmony of the family. In fact, it is not an unacceptable thing for pregnant women to raise pets. Talking with the elderly, they can also understand. It is not possible. You can also send the cats away temporarily. Discuss with your family by yourself and try to solve this matter peacefully.
Standing on the position of her mother -in -law is a big thing. If the cat affects your health because of the cat, this is a way to do it. Since the mother -in -law’s approach is for you, you should also stand on her position more about it. After all, the baby is the biggest, you should tolerate it in this matter.
Chinese elderly people like to interfere with their children's lives, especially my mother -in -law likes to set up daughter -in -law. But remember that although women are married, they have independent personality. Don't do what you don't like to do because of others. For such forbearance, others will think that you are very bully, and will eventually ride on your head for prestige. In short, it is impossible to make concessions.
I think it can be sent away. After all, your physical health is more important, and it is for hello to send the cat. Out of the consideration of your physical health, I think it is for children and their bodies. Walk.
Pets have no effect on children, but they must be vaccinated. If the mother -in -law is not assured, it is recommended that when the first three months of the first three months, the cat will be tied to a friend's house first.
I think it can be dependent on the actual situation.
The is actually normal to raise pets when pregnant abroad, but it seems rare in China. On the one hand, it is because of conceptual problems, and on the other hand, it is because pets have not been popular. Many elderly people have a great prejudice to pets. They will feel that pets have bacteria and may hurt people. They are not very good for pregnant women. In fact, many people’s pets will regularly check in pet hospitals. Whenever bathing, some are also trained and will not hurt pregnant women. I remember my sister was still raising her dog when she was pregnant. Sometimes she would sleep with the dog, and there was no problem with the child.
So you can look at it according to the actual situation. It mainly depends on two aspects. The first aspect is the attitude of the family. If your family really resists your pets when you are pregnant, if you insist, you will be uneasy at home, then I suggest you still suggest It is better to calm the pets elsewhere first, otherwise it will be bad for you for a long time. The second aspect is to look at the sanitary status of pets. If your cat has also vaccinated, I often take a bath, and it is very clean. I think you can still persist when your family is not very opposed. A little less cat, let it be in other relatively isolated space activities, for example, try to keep it in the cage as much as possible.
In short, I think the big principle is not to affect the harmony of the family. In fact, it is not an unacceptable thing for pregnant women to raise pets. Talking with the elderly, they can also understand. It is not possible. You can also send the cats away temporarily. Discuss with your family by yourself and try to solve this matter peacefully.
Standing on the position of her mother -in -law is a big thing. If the cat affects your health because of the cat, this is a way to do it. Since the mother -in -law’s approach is for you, you should also stand on her position more about it. After all, the baby is the biggest, you should tolerate it in this matter.
Chinese elderly people like to interfere with their children's lives, especially my mother -in -law likes to set up daughter -in -law. But remember that although women are married, they have independent personality. Don't do what you don't like to do because of others. For such forbearance, others will think that you are very bully, and will eventually ride on your head for prestige. In short, it is impossible to make concessions.
I think it can be sent away. After all, your physical health is more important, and it is for hello to send the cat. Out of the consideration of your physical health, I think it is for children and their bodies. Walk.
Pets have no effect on children, but they must be vaccinated. If the mother -in -law is not assured, it is recommended that when the first three months of the first three months, the cat will be tied to a friend's house first.